by Latorial Faison
a funny poem . . . I didn't realize that
When my parents gave me away
It wasn't to my husband
On my wedding day.
They gave me to someone else.
And I knew it was a shame
When one day I woke up to find
That I had married Uncle Sam
Our first year of marriage
Was spent nations apart
Man of my dreams miles away
But always in my heart
The next year took us
Into a southern state
Where I found it hard
To adjust and to relate
I wanted to find a job
That paid a good rate
Educated without experience
Would unemployment be my fate?
From temporary to part-time
Without a benefit in the world
Uncle Sam had just begun
To rearrange my world
With two college degrees
Hanging on the wall
I never guessed that employers
Would take so long to call
Two years and a baby later
We moved on to a new state
Where house work and babytalk
Was my clean slate
Words became wisdom
Poetry kept me from falling
But underneath the lyrics
Was my second calling
I wrote a book or two
And sold them now and then
Writing occupied my time
Until life could make amends
We were on the road again
Off to the heart of Texas
Where life got really hot
In the battle of the sexes
Every soldier at the Hood
Was preparing for Iraq
The career goals of spouses
Were tossed to the back
Wife and mother first
Any other calling last
A full-time job teaching
Was a thing of the past
Off to war he went
My husband or Uncle Sam
Again, I had to think,
"This marriage is a sham!"
It's hard to fit a mold
So I dare not even try
But I questioned Uncle Sam
And often asked him "Why?"
But I held on to my vows
And the man I married that day
For I knew he'd been kidnapped
By a man whose beard is gray
I'm always on the lookout
For yet another position
To find my life's work
Is my sole mission
I don't fit the stereotype
Of the average officer's spouse
Hosting coffees and teas
In my decorated military house
I'm a different kind of woman
With a different kind of goal
Who didn't fall in love with Uncle Sam
And pledge to, with him, grow old.

Copyright © June 2006 Latorial Faison